Thanks for the comment ^^ Took me a while to figure out what you meant since I had completely forgotten I even wrote that XD
Yes, I do love Snape with all my heart. He was my faovurite character and I cried along with everyone else when he died and his motives were revealed. I'm not gonna deny he was still a complete Asshole though ¬_¬ But he earnt my respect. <3
But I can't handle this overwhelming hatred for James and the like because he "stole" Lily I admit I held some resentment for James, yes, but in the end there was no "stealing". It was Lily's choice. Her friendship with Severus was rocky for some time and they were clearly drifting apart. Severus was seeking acceptance with Death Eater supporters and Lily was a muggle born. I really did think she tried to hang on to their friendship but "Snape's worst memory" really was the last straw. Lily was not unfair. One of snape's key memories was Lily expressing concern about her blood status at hogwarts, and asking Severus whether it makes a difference, being muggle born. Severus tells her, no it doesn't make any difference. right there, their friendship is sealed with that one line.
Years later, with one word, that bond, that friendship was undone. That socially akward ten year old Lily loved was no more and in his place was a pureblood supremist. Of course, we as an audiance now this is not the case, based on the fact Snape never once brings up the subject of blood status. Not even when he's bullying students like Hermione.
But that's not the point. From Lily's perspective, her childhood friend spat on their memory and that really was the last straw. So with no other choice, she turned her back on that memory and walked away.
You can argue Lily is partually to blame for giving up too soon, but as I said in my comment. That's life. There is never one person wrong. It's always both. We all mess up in relationships, whether we do something stupid, say something stupid, give up on them too soon, etc. We've all been there. And in the darkest part of our minds we may ask ourselves "What if..." "Would things have been different if..." the sad fact is there probably is a lot of Snapes out there that we created. But unlike fiction character, we don't dwell on it, we have to make the choice to move on or stay in one spot forever. Fans
Can't blame Lily either, because Snape is not her responsibility. She has a husband and child. Yes, she could of had that with Snape too, but we're not talking about what if, we're talking about here and now. Even if she did learn of what Snape did for her, the most she could do is forgive and become firends again. Snape would still be where he is, he would still have lost her and more importantly, he would still need to move with his life and find new love.
I could also do an entire rant about the wizarding world needing a therapist for people like Snape and...Dumbledore may have set Snape on the right road of redemption, but for him physically and emotionally, it wasn't healthy.
That was long winded ^_^ I do apoligize, but I guess when a writer can really make you think and bring out such real life debate, they really do earn the spot of one of the greatest writers. Thank you for such a nice comment, and I'm glad you liked my argument